Tony:
There was a series shown on the History Channel a while back called
Hitler's Generals. One of the segments of this series featured Udet, titled "The Devil's General". This episode detailed Udet's last hours, as well as some other insights. Udet had a daughter (out of wedlock?) with a young actress named Ehmi Bessel. While Bessel was giving birth, Udet was partying out of town and was already in another relationship. He sent Ehmi a telegram congratulating her and telling her to name the baby girl Anna-Marie. I guess that didn't set to well with Ehmi, she named her daughter Dinah.
I didn't see this episode for sale at the HistoryChannel.com. I can make a copy of mine for you, but can't make any promises that it will turn out OK.
Amy